cropped-BlackgirlsGuidetodating5x8frontcover4.jpgThis book is a guide to help Black Women maneuver through the dating process as it pertains to dating white men. It entails bits of history, stories, recipes and jokes. The Author urges black women to open their options and to give white men a try.


“I think many women limit themselves to dating only within their race. I believe we should be opened minded to all races. In dealing with white men, I’ve found my self thinking, either this guy isn’t into black girls or he’s assuming I don’t have interest in white men. From reading Niki’s book, I’ve realized sometimes its neither and just maybe we could all use a little help. I believe Niki’s book delivers that help in a hilariously honest way. -Meagan Good, actress

Its an easy read, with simple guidelines that work. -Patrice Hollis, Playboy Playmate

6 thoughts on “About

  1. I’m a white man dating a beautiful black woman who never dated outside her race before. It took me to go to an all black hang out to meet her, but we’ve been together a year now. I am amazed at the amount of WM and BW together these days. I’ve dated outside my race before but it was not as acceptable as it is now. Books like yours certainly help the cause!

  2. Don’t know why I’ve always dated beautiful confident black women, may having Muslim Nanny in Morocco, or when young boy fluffy black women doting on me is my most pleasant childhood memory. Against social norms of my time resentment and threats of brothers, in college , marriage, parent of grown children , but I tend to set bar high most have been foreign and most held American black culture in contempt; currently my girlfriend is Nigerian with strict father and very long international

  3. : Throw the word ‘ today ‘ I spend my lonely days which are fleeting; moments of illusion which never fail to be happy; love our hearts feelings…… ‘ Almost forgot never pass on an opportunity: I never throw away,or carelessly waste my time thinking about you … and … ‘ Love it although one never clearly understands it reflects the love you have, on the other hand, never deny… ‘ I don’t want to ignore my simple heart which is busy loving you ‘ I should accept everything that happens and the many suitors will have been waiting for your love…… ‘ Over to the end of my days my poetry is written about you … …

  4. Niki — a) love the blog and b) love the vids of you. Well done. I just started dating black women and all I can tell you is that I have never been happier. I grew up very “sheltered” and came to a realization that I just find black women more sexy, more beautiful and more interesting than others I have met before. I cant explain it other than personal preference. And I find that they challenge me intellectually in a way different from anyone — because I rarely share the same experiences — and this is a good thing. Keep it up. Your insights help me and ground me so I can keep from thinking that I am insane. :)

  5. Hi Niki,
    I’ve never dated a black women but have dated women from Southeast Asia. I find I love the contrast between myself and women of other races but a ghetto persona does makes me shy away. I also like slim, trim features so please don’t feel you are “ass deficient”. To me a black woman with small, muscular posterior is stunningly attractive. You are an incredibly attractive woman, keep up the good work.


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